28/05/2026
Recently I’ve had a lot of comments asking:
“How could you not know?”
“Surely you realised?”
“Why are you blaming someone else?”
And honestly? I understand why people ask.
Because for years I spoke openly about rebuilding my finances, budgeting and surviving over £100,000 of debt…
without really talking publicly about HOW any of it happened.
But recently something shifted.
My daughter turning 18 changed something emotionally for me and for the first time I realised:
actually… maybe it’s okay to tell the truth now.
Not to attack anyone.
Not to be bitter.
But because silence keeps so many people trapped in shame.
And I know there are people quietly rebuilding after divorce, betrayal, financial chaos or survival situations who desperately need to know they are not alone 🤍