10/15/2026
A stroke, a serious accident, a diagnosis that takes away someone's ability to make decisions. None of that waits for the paperwork to be ready.
Having a power of attorney is a start, not the whole answer. It needs a backup named, in case the first person can't act either. It needs to be someone who's actually available when it matters, close enough or reachable enough to step in without delay. And the document itself has to be structured properly, or an institution can refuse to honour it at exactly the moment your family needs it to work.
I've sat with families who had a POA in place and still hit a wall, because one of those pieces was missing.
Is yours actually built to hold up, backup named, practical to use, properly structured, or is it a document sitting in a drawer? Tell me in the comments.