09/03/2026
As I get ready for my oldest to start school, I can’t help but wonder what his future will look like.
University? A trade? Entrepreneurship? A career that doesn’t even exist yet?
I went to university and earned a double major in psychology and philosophy.
I loved what I learned, and I use it more than I probably ever expected to. Psychology taught me to think about where people are coming from and how our experiences shape the way we see things. Philosophy taught me to ask questions, especially when the answer is, “because that’s the way it’s always been done.”
But I didn’t graduate with a clear career waiting for me.
My husband took a very different path. He went into the trades after high school and came out with a skill, a ticket and a career.
Both paths have value.
And as much as I would support my kids if they chose university, I’d be just as happy (maybe even happier) to see them choose a trade, start a business, or find another path that fits who they become.
Which has me thinking about something else.
We’re often told to save for our children’s education. And for many families, an RESP can be an incredibly valuable part of doing that.
But maybe the better conversation starts one step earlier:
What are we actually trying to give our kids?
An education?
A head start?
Options?
Flexibility to figure out their own path?
Sometimes the traditional answer will absolutely be the right one.
Sometimes it might be part of the answer.
Because the best advice isn’t universal.
It should take into account your goals, your family and the life you’re actually planning for.