06/03/2026
I paid $320 for a private driver to get us from Mostar in Bosnia-Herzegovina to the ferry for an island off the coast of Croatia. And I'd do it again in a heartbeat. π
Most people see that number and think: expensive.
I saw 6 saved hours, a border crossing in minutes instead of an hour, a driver named Maja who knew every story behind the landscape, and a planned stop at the walls of Ston β one of the most stunning places we visited β that we never would have been able to access had we travelled by bus or train.
Here's what I've learned about money after years of doing this work:
Most people only look at the cost. Financially savvy women look at the return.
Time saved is real value. Stress avoided is real value. An experience that becomes a lifelong memory is absolutely real value.
When you factor all of that in, $320 wasn't expensive at all.
Swipe through for the full breakdown β and the reframe that changes how you think about spending. π