08/30/2026
Funny how something can mean more almost 10 years later than it did when you first chose it.
I was never really a tattoo guy.
My dad had passed away a couple of years earlier and my son who already had a few said if you get one I’ll get the same one.
I think he was shocked when I actually took him up on it. I think I was too.
That was really the only reason I did it.
I chose a compass with a cross in the middle. My thinking back then was pretty simple. Life takes you in all kinds of directions. You make some good decisions you make some bad ones, you change course a few times and every once in a while wonder how you ended up where you are. 😂
But I liked the idea of having a cross right in the middle of all those directions. Something in the middle that keeps you centered.
Family, Values, some kind of belief, whatever it is that pulls on you and helps you find your way.
Long story short, we got the same tattoo.
At the time I just thought it was just a cool thing for him and I to do together. Then this picture popped up in my memories. It got me thinking.
A lot of life has happened since then.
My wife and I raised a daughter and a son. Our daughter married a great guy and together they’ve given us two beautiful granddaughters.
Our son got married and they just welcomed their first little girl.
So somehow we went from raising two kids to now watching those two kids build families of their own and three little girls have been added to ours.
That changes the way I look at this tattoo. I used to think the compass was about direction. Now I think it’s more about what keeps you centred while everything around you changes.
My wife, my daughter and her family, my son and his family, and now those three little girls have given it a whole different meaning.
And I kind of like the fact that I probably understand it better now than I did when I chose it.
Hopefully still lots of directions to go.