21/09/2021
Ordered 2x shakes for my kids today.
Mango, chia, honey, scoop of protein 🤤.
But … the drinks weren’t what I ordered. I got 2x blueberry-banana smoothies.
I didn’t want to make a scene. My people pleasing muscle felt to flex, to say “no it’s OK” to the girl that made them.
So I flexed my people pleaser & said exactly that “ .. no it’s OK, I’ll see if the kids like them” 😬 … I knew they wouldn’t.
They didn’t like it.
What am I going to do?
Felt like a waste to just bin them. I had a sip, AMAZING. But I was wasn’t hungry.
Pretty awkward to give away 1 of the drinks, not touched - open cup / straw. Who’s going to take a drink from a stranger, esp in the current environment?
So they went in the bin.
I went back & re-ordered. They offered to make them at no cost as they knew it was a mistake.
I asked instead they put the money in the till & pay it forward.
As I waited for my new drinks, a lady approached me & asked “did you just buy my drink / that is so nice, thank you”.
I then felt awkward. I hope she didn’t think I was hitting on her. I mean she was attractive. But still, I wasn’t then expecting to be called-out on being the buyer of the pay-it-forward drinks.
So I left without the kids drinks.
Just kidding (are you still reading) …
I left with the new drinks, feeling like I did a nice thing for someone else. It also felt great not to make someone else feel bad for making a mistake.
Because it’s OK that people make mistakes. We are always learning, & the work never stops.
📸 my daughter of me.
In the distance is “Big Red” … a buoy which sits about 450m or so from shore. It’s a nice swim.
When you swim out there, your mind plays tricks on the way …. especially when doing it solo. You see tails & shapes. You feel currents that pull you & that scare you. You then remember that you’ll be OK.
You get to think about a lot of things out there.
One thing I’ve realised … 2020 was a big year for a lot of us. I now think it was actually a huge light - which is shining deeply into all of us, into all of our dark places. Testing us.
It’s always a good time to be a good human being.
☀️🌊 ~