24/05/2012
I have a dear friend who is a teacher's aide for 'special needs children' in a Qld high school. She has been doing this job for over a decade and gets great results - probably because she cares. She believes that the key to her success is placing expectations on her students and demanding respect no-matter what is going on in the student's life.
She has recently had a new head of department who believes that the way to get results is through kindness and expecting nothing of the children 'because they are not going to do anything in life that is academic'.
When a student arrived in class today with no pen to do his work and an attitude that said I'm not going to do anything my friend told him that in her class he is expected to arrive with the right equipment and make an effort. He complained and she is to be spoken to for 'upsetiing' him.
This is not the first time that I have heard from teachers who are taken to task for trying to give their students skills for the real world. It's all very well to make allowances for stress, or a bad day, or whatever in the school environment but in so doing you are not preparing these children for the real world.
Every student in an Australian school must be told that there are minimum expectations to be adhered to at all times which include attending class with all the right equipment and showing respect for teachers and a willingness to try. There must be a consequence for non-compliance.
These children need to understand that the world does not revolve around them and that there are many things in life they need to do because they are right to do, regardless of whether they want to do them. Life is like that!
Tonette Watson
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