27/05/2026
I used to love State of Origin nights. The banter, the teasing of the Queenslanders because clearly NSW are superior... even my children get in on the rivalry because they are born in different states! Then I learnt more...
As a financial adviser, and as someone who has personally experienced aspects of it, supported clients and friends through it, I’ve seen how domestic and family violence often hides behind “normal” Aussie culture, alcohol, stress and silence.
Financial abuse is acceptable in our society, but it is absolutely wrong (I don't have the PC words to put here) and needs to stop!
Control of money. Forced debt. Monitoring spending. Preventing independence. Creating fear around finances.
Most men on my feed are good men. This isn’t about blame. It’s about awareness and leadership.
Check in on your mates. Call out behaviour that isn’t ok. Teach emotional regulation, not intimidation. Remember that real strength is making people feel safe.
Women and children should never fear the men in their lives, but with NSW statistics previously showing domestic violence incidents increasing by over 40% on State of Origin nights, I felt this was important to share.
If you or someone you know needs support: 📞 1800RESPECT – 1800 737 732 📞 MensLine Australia – 1300 789 978 📞 Lifeline – 13 11 14 📞 In an emergency, call 000