01/11/2026
"Money may not be the most important thing in the world, but it affects everything that is." That line from Rich Dad Poor Dad has stuck with me for years, and the older I get, the truer it feels.
There's a certain pride in saying money doesn't matter to you. It sounds grounded. It sounds like your priorities are in the right place. But when you sit with it honestly, the things you care about most, your family, your health, your time, the opportunities you can give your kids, are all shaped by your financial situation whether you want them to be or not.
Money decides how much stress you carry into the weekend. Whether you can afford the specialist appointment without thinking twice. Whether your kids get the school, the tutor, the opportunity that changes their trajectory. Whether you can take a week off when a parent gets sick without checking the account balance first.
Pretending money doesn't matter doesn't insulate you from any of that. It just means you're not paying attention to something that's shaping the outcomes anyway.
The flip side is that getting your financial situation sorted isn't about being greedy or materialistic. It's about being in a position where the things that actually matter to you aren't quietly limited by the things you never got around to organising.
If you've been putting off the financial side of things because it feels overwhelming or lower priority, this is your nudge.