10/06/2026
MY SCOLIOSIS JOURNEY: LIFE IN SOCIETY
In the year 2015, I started working for Shoprite as a fruit and veg attendant, which meant standing for long hours. Now, standing for long hours was supposed to be somewhat tedious for me, but it wasn't. I actually managed and had no complications. In 2016, I was moved to a different department as a cashier, which meant sitting for long periods of time, and it didn't bother me either. I flourished and lived an active life.
I am the type of person who is intentional about creating impact and standing out (kuzifaka po), so I decided to enter a singing competition that was created for Shoprite staff across the globe called TOPSTARS. I got selected several times, competed, and was victorious. That, for me, was fulfilling.
In that very year, I founded the Mulengula Foundation, and the objective was to empower women and children. I didn't know exactly how, but as time went on, the vision became clearer when I went to university to pursue Medicine and Surgery. I always wanted to be a surgeon, and I'm glad I embarked on that journey.
While in school, I did something I never thought I'd see myself doing—I entered pageantry, the very dream that exposed my physical challenges, imperfections, insecurities, and fears. That was a crazy decision. It was like going against the tides and against the direction of the wind. It was like placing myself on a chopping board. You can imagine the amount of doubt I had to fight.
While surgery reduced my spinal curvature, if you look closely, you can still see the impairment. It bothered me. But my daring spirit couldn't let me sit this one out. So I went for the big one, Miss Universe Zambia 🇿🇲. I asked God not to let me walk this path alone because I really feared rejection, discrimination, and being different.
I auditioned, and behold, I was selected. What a confidence booster 👏. I was embraced and given a platform to share my story.
This is where my life really changed because, back when I had not yet undergone surgery, I had no confidence whatsoever. It was like dreaming had been taken away from me, my hope was shattered, and everything felt very dark. I hated the outside world, and the feeling of being different from everyone else was killing me slowly. Imagine being depressed as a kid.
I did get major relief after surgery, but the real change came in 2019—a change from within that made me feel like I could be anyone and anything in the world. That's the power of inclusion. Ms. Alice, thank you for seeing me and helping me become.
In 2019, I became the 1st Runner-Up of Miss Universe Zambia, and I was overjoyed. It made me want to come back for more, but even more than that, it made me want to make a difference in my country. That was the beginning of my true advocacy. My vision became clear, and it was time to execute it.
I launched the campaign, where I started advocating for persons living with disabilities. Through this initiative, we got the opportunity to help children living with cleft lip and cleft palate access surgery. I turned my circumstances into an opportunity, and that in itself gave meaning to my life and brought a sense of fulfilment. Today, we also help women and are heading towards empowering the boy child.
I entered more pageants, and every time, new ideas were birthed. The aim was to represent the community of women and girls who are marginalised and to pave the way for future generations. Small girl, big dreams kind of vibes.
I did earn a few titles, such as Miss Tourism and Culture Universe Zambia, Miss World Zambia 2nd Runner-Up, Miss University Zambia, and Top Model Zambia. The dream was to break barriers and finally represent Zambia on a global platform—a culturally diverse nation, inclusive, the land of work and joy 😊.
As I grew older, I started to experience weight gain, which affected my productivity and activity levels. Going to the gym became more challenging, so I'd advise one to maintain a less stressful body size. Cold seasons were the hardest to deal with. The pain was excruciating (sharp), and at times it could last for weeks. No sleeping position was comfortable, and sometimes walking was unbearable.
I remember that in 2025, I attempted to compete for Miss Universe Zambia again because, hey, your girl still dreamed of stepping onto a global stage. This time, however, the story was different. I experienced more pain, I had put on weight, and getting rid of it was really challenging. But your girl loves a good fight, so I succeeded.
Medical reports had me feeling depressed. The curvature was progressing, the pain was getting worse, and I was gripped with so much fear for my future. I dreaded leaving my bed, but I still showed up. During the pageant, the directors noticed that something was off. They often spoke to me and gave me timely advice and encouragement. It carried me through for a few days, and then I would find myself slipping back into that strange state.
I didn't know how to get out of it, but again, I'm glad they saw the dark nights and the hidden struggles of living with scoliosis.
I often encourage people to be strong, ambitious, and determined while trying to be the very thing I preach. But how can you be victorious if there's no battle to fight? How can you be resilient if you give in and give up? I won the fight. That's why I call myself strong and resilient.
Thank you for reading. This marks the end of our Scoliosis Series. But do stay glued to this page—you'll be glad you did.