06/04/2026
Where is your money going? Do you budget? With debit and credit cards it's easy to swipe life away. And then there is Affirm and pay as you go on most checkout sites.
Twice in 2 days I whipped out a quick Google spreadsheet when talking with clients to dive into where their money was going.
In one case, the spreadsheet said there was extra even though monthly it didn't feel like it. Finding those funds and planning better is the goal for this next week so we can regroup.
In another case it was lots of automatic payments on debit and pay as you go along with big one off expenses. It's easy to justify the hard work and big expenses in your head. But sometimes on paper we need to take care of the smaller stuff first to actually make it feasible.
One client will likely be helped with a reverse mortgage and some retirement income restucture.
The other can save $1600 per month with a home equity line of credit AND budgeting help to make sure the cards aren't getting racked up again in the future.
I spoke to an agent today whose elderly client made a really risky real estate decision by listening to Grok AI and wouldn't listen to reason.
In a world where AI is taking over, sometimes a human touch can help you realize that you aren't alone, that you have options, and that a financial plan and budget / getting back to the basics is often times the key.
If you love automation, I do like Monarch Money since Mint Money isn't around anymore. And automation is great especially for savers and those with accounts all over and definitely my FIRE principal folks.
But don't discount a good old fashioned spreadsheet to really "feel" those numbers and how slight changes can impact you.