08/25/2026
Have you ever felt out of place?
Like everyone in the room was just different from you?
And maybe you shouldn’t do that thing you planned?
230-August 18
SINGING FOR MY SUPPER – from “The Wealthy Spirit”
“Criticism didn’t really stop us and it shouldn’t ever stop anyone, because critics are only the people who can’t get a record deal themselves.”—Sir Paul McCartney
When you step outside the proverbial box, you have to be prepared for criticism.
As I went from meeting to meeting, networking my way to successful workshop enrollments, I perfected my thirty-second commercial introduction.
I always started with a song: “You’re gonna be rich tomorrow…if you take my class today,” or “We’re in the money…my clients are singing this song.”
Generally, people enjoyed the upbeat flavor of my off-beat presentations.
But then I found myself in a different networking group.
Everyone there gave a standard introduction in the exact same format: “Hi, I’m Larry. I am an attorney specializing in real estate law, I’ve been in business for twenty-five years”; “Hi, I’m Susan. I am a CPA specializing in taxes. I’ve been in business for fifteen years.”
As my turn approached, I hesitated. Maybe I shouldn’t do my singing thing in this room. Then I thought, “Nah,” and went ahead, “Money makes the world go around, that clinking clanking sound…if you want more clinking and clanking in your life, call me.” There were a few shocked faces, but mostly smiles as I looked around me.
The next time I went to this meeting, a woman came over to me. “There were complaints about you at the last board meeting!” she exclaimed. “It was felt that singing was inappropriate behavior at a business meeting.”
“Well, I have to tell you,” I replied, “that may be, but ten people came over to me after the meeting and asked for my card and six of them signed up for my workshop, so I think I’m going to keep singing!” But I knew my days there were numbered.
When I related this story to a friend, she told me about of friend of hers who was a professional singer. In search of work, she moved to Hong Kong and was invited to an office weekend party. She wrote a song for the company and sang it, after which she was asked if she would teach it to the president, whose favorite thing was karaoke. She ended up choreographing and teaching the song to the entire management team. She sang a duet with the president, who then hired her to be the cultural ambassador for the company. She now travels to all their international offices, bringing fun and morale to the company’s clients and employees. Why singing? Everyone in Asia sings—all the business people, every chance they get, all the time. There it is a huge asset to singing. She says she’s like a goddess over there.
Hmm. I think I should start planning a trip….
If you’re having trouble with the box you’re in, take yourself to a different box.
Today’s Affirmation: “There are people everywhere who enjoy the unique gifts I have to share.”