08/26/2026
I don't know how to teach my kids to work for something they don't actually need.
That one's been rattling around for a while.
We do make the girls earn things. Helping around the house, sticking with something long enough to actually get good at it. Not because we need the help. Because I want them to feel the gap between wanting something and having it.
But there's no real stakes to any of it. Nothing they want is something they need at this stage in the game.
So the line lives somewhere in the middle, and my wife and I waffle on that. Some days I think we're too soft. Other days I think I'm making a five year old fold laundry to solve a problem she doesn't have haha.
Honestly no idea if I'm getting it right.
If your kids grew up comfortable and turned out hard working anyway, what did you actually do?