08/04/2026
You've seen the "be your own bank" videos. Infinite banking, all of it.
Here's the honest version.
The instinct is actually right. Wanting money that stays liquid, grows tax-advantaged, and stays in your control is a smart thing to want. The idea was never the problem. The ex*****on is.
A high cash value policy only works when it's designed correctly. Built poorly, it quietly underperforms for years before anyone notices. That's the part the internet skips right past.
Done right, here's what it can look like.
Age 45, funding $25,000 a year. By year 5 you've put in about $125,000 and the cash value is right there with it. By year 10 it's pulled ahead substantially in a tax-advantaged account. And clients borrow against it along the way for a real estate deal while the policy keeps compounding.
You don't have to choose between growing your money and using it. That's the whole point.
If you earn well, you've maxed the 401(k), and you want another bucket you can actually reach, it's worth seeing your own numbers.