Resilient Wealth Management Inc.

Resilient Wealth Management Inc. Resilient Wealth Management is a boutique financial planning firm based in the Central Valley of CA.

Securities offered through LPL Financial, Inc., a registered investment advisor, Member FINRA/SIPC
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08/21/2026

Last year, I walked into my first LPL Financial conference just two months after transitioning my practice to LPL. I remember feeling like I was drinking through a fire hose. 12,000+ advisors, more information than I could process, and I didn't know a single face in the crowd.

Last week, I went back for my second one. Completely different experience. I couldn't get through a hallway without running into someone I recognized.

Amanda Bateman, CFP®, a woman I'd prayed with at the Prayer Breakfast the year before, found me and remembered my name. Conversations picked back up with amazing leaders like Jen Roche and Beth Csengody like no time had passed.

Jesse Cole, founder of the Savannah Bananas, gave the keynote, and it stuck with me more than I expected. His framework came down to four things: entertain always, engage deeply, empower your team, experiment often. The part I keep replaying is what he said about failure. 🎯 It's only fatal if you stop.

The Kingdom Advisors Prayer Breakfast was transformative. The message centered on money as a tool, and our platforms as a ministry. A purpose. A calling. Being a good steward of your treasure and your talent. I left with new resources, but what stuck with me is how fast this experience stopped feeling like a room full of strangers and started feeling like a community I actually belong to.

08/07/2026

I heard Sarah Jakes Roberts say something in January that I couldn't shake. Do something different.

A few days later, I found out I have arthritis in my back, in the same spot where I had surgery years ago. That news knocked me down for a minute.

Eight months later, I'm down 13% of my body weight. Working out five days a week. On vacation with Nicole, I caught myself in a gym instead of by the pool, and she noticed before I did.

The physical part is only half of it. I've been showing up differently with my kids too, present instead of scattered. Nicole and I are leading a marriage class now. She's a deacon. Our weekends look nothing like they used to.

I keep coming back to this idea. If I want something different, I have to become someone different first.

What's the one word you're carrying into the rest of this year?

If an uncomfortable money conversation feels like a rock sitting in your throat, you're not alone in that. Some people g...
07/29/2026

If an uncomfortable money conversation feels like a rock sitting in your throat, you're not alone in that. Some people get anxious before the conversation even starts. Others have it and spend the next three days replaying every word they wish they'd said differently.

Nicole and I have had versions of every conversation in this carousel. The 401(k) pull. The family money. The "we're too busy to deal with the estate stuff" conversation that somehow always resurfaces at the worst time.

Being the one people look to for financial advice doesn't make these conversations easy at home. It just means I've had more practice having them.

The rest of this carousel is what's actually worked in our house or conversations that I've helped clients navigate with their partners, not just what sounds good in theory.

If you don't have someone to have that first conversation with, that's a conversation we can have.

Share this with someone you know needs it. 🏆

I think about that client a lot.Most planning conversations start with numbers. Growth, contributions, timelines. The on...
07/26/2026

I think about that client a lot.

Most planning conversations start with numbers. Growth, contributions, timelines. The ones that actually change how I work are the ones where someone realizes giving doesn't have to wait for a document to speak on their behalf.

She chose to be in the room. To watch her decisions land while she was still around to feel it.

That question has started showing up earlier in my client meetings now. Not "what happens to your money when you're gone," but "what do you want to see happen while you're still here for it?"

If that question sits with you the way it sits with me, I'd genuinely like to know what comes to mind.

07/22/2026

Cheer and track fees, summer programs, traveling, a business, a community, a family. I wear a lot of hats! Whew, some of them add up quick, lol!

Can anyone relate? What are you surviving this week? 😂

Happy Hump Day!

I almost didn't post this one.Talking about freedom and family history in the same breath feels heavier than a holiday c...
07/04/2026

I almost didn't post this one.

Talking about freedom and family history in the same breath feels heavier than a holiday caption usually calls for. But avoiding it felt dishonest, especially on a day built entirely around the word.

What I keep coming back to is how differently that word lands depending on who you ask. Ask ten families what independence means to them, and you'll get ten different answers, some lighter than others.

Mine isn't just about a trip or a date on the calendar. It's about what gets handed down without anyone saying it out loud. The freedom to choose. The freedom to build. The freedom to not have to ask.
That's the version I'm working on for my own kids.

Wherever you land on that spectrum today, I hope you get a real minute of rest.

14 years taught me that the pictures only tell part of the story.They don’t show the hard conversations, the seasons whe...
07/01/2026

14 years taught me that the pictures only tell part of the story.

They don’t show the hard conversations, the seasons where we had to choose each other when it wasn’t easy, or the moments that quietly built us into who we are now. But I wouldn’t trade any of it.

Marriage is a covenant. God designed it to be rewarding, not comfortable. And the wealth that comes from building a life with someone who knows you, believes in you, and still chooses you every morning, that’s the kind that never shows up on a balance sheet.

How are you building wealth with your partner?🥂

Going into year 14 with Nicole, I’m not just grateful. I’m rich in every way that actually counts.

Happy anniversary, Nicole. Still my greatest blessing. ❤️

Two people can combine their incomes, open a joint account, and set up automatic transfers, yet still be on completely d...
06/26/2026

Two people can combine their incomes, open a joint account, and set up automatic transfers, yet still be on completely different pages about what financial security actually means.

I have seen it enough times to know the disconnect usually starts before any of the logistics. One person defines security as having six months of savings. The other feels secure when the bills are paid and there is money left over. They never compared definitions. They just assumed they were working toward the same thing.

The four slides in this carousel are the conversations that should happen before any account gets opened. Where you each came from, how you each define enough, and what the plan actually does when life does not go as planned.

Building something real together requires knowing you are actually building toward the same thing.

Couples And Money. Financial Planning For Couples. Joint Finances. Relationship And Money. Wealth Building. Financial Alignment. Money Conversations. Marriage And Money. Wealth Management. Resilient Wealth Management.

Growing up, the financial advice I heard most was "save your money." No number attached to it. No goal behind it. Just a...
06/24/2026

Growing up, the financial advice I heard most was "save your money." No number attached to it. No goal behind it. Just a vague instruction with no blueprint for what saving was supposed to build.

When the income started coming in, I had no frame for what to do with it. The standard guidance was written for someone who started from a different place. So I stopped following it and started paying attention to what actually moved things.

Five of those decisions are in this carousel. They felt counterintuitive at the time. A few of them still do.

If you grew up in a house where money was private, absent, or just never explained, you are probably still navigating that gap. This is where we start closing it.

www.resilientwealthmanagement.com

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590 W. Alluvial Avenue STE 108, Fresno, CA 93711
Fresno, CA
93711

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