11/02/2026
Would you know where you stand financially if you had to stand alone?
A TheStreet piece this past week (Oct 24) pointed to a 2026 survey of 3,004 Americans by the law firm Henderson & Henderson. In it, one in five married people said they want to leave their marriage but can't afford to. Housing costs and shared debt were the top barriers.
That number stayed with me. It isn't really a story about divorce. It's about how often our financial lives are so intertwined that we can't see our own picture clearly.
Plenty of women in strong, happy marriages couldn't answer these questions today:
What do we own, and whose name is it in?
What would my income be on my own?
Who do I call first if something happens?
You don't need to be planning an exit to deserve those answers. Clarity isn't a sign of distrust. It's what lets you make choices out of confidence instead of fear, whether you're married, divorcing, widowed, or somewhere in between.
If you've been meaning to get a clearer view of your own financial picture, I'm always glad to have that conversation. No pressure, no judgment.