04/04/2018
Your life is profoundly transformed by the people you CHOOSE to invest time, love, support, honesty, and belief in. Have the dignity to distance yourself from those who lower your happiness, deplete your energy, jack your mojo, question your character or cause you to doubt yourself. Hold love in your heart for those people -and who knows maybe someday things will be different, but it is never your responsibility to put your own life on hold for them or to convince another person of your value.
James Altucher once told me that he really started LIVING life when he stopped investing so much time trying to change other people's beliefs who really had no intention of listening. Notice when someone listens.
Every one of us is busy. Too busy. Create space and time for positive people to come into your life. Surround yourself with those who believe in your dreams and who not only share your beliefs but who have enough love for you to call you out when you stray. The people who will lift you up and genuinely want to see you succeed are hard to come by. Real people are rare people. Quote me on that one! You won't find many. You'll know when you have. It takes time. Who you are (inside) and how you value yourself will begin to attract those very people into your life. Make room. Sometimes that means you have to do some house cleaning.
God has a unique way of bringing the right people from all corners of the world together. It's up to you to honor those connections and patiently cultivate trust and appreciation.
I have several rare friends. But I have to say this is one of the few people who honestly and truly can look me in the eyes and say "I understand” and mean it.
The most precious commodities you have are your time and your trust --- so carefully evaluate with whom and where you invest these things.
Today I challenge you to honor the RARE people in your life - reach out to the REAL people. Find them. Reach out and make time ---no matter how busy you are ---for the rare people who charge your batteries and restore your faith. Spend time with those who see you for who you really are, bolster your purpose and inspire you to do what matters most.