25/02/2018
SO WHO IS GITA AND WHAT'S HER STORY?
Gita is 37 years old , she has 2 boys, one is Soruj, 18 years old living with her and Sopol, 14 years old living with his father's family in her childhood village.
When Gita was 9 months old and Ramus, her older brother was 9 their mother passed away. Ramus moved between families until he ran away from the village when he was 13. The neighboors took care of Gita but as a different child (she slept in a different place, got different clothes and ate only the cheap food..) when she was 13 Ramus took her to Pokhara and since then they taking care of each other.
She new her husband from the village and they got married when she was 16, they lived together few happy years in the village.
When she was 28 (and her boys were 7 and 1-year-old baby) her husband ran away to work in Malesia for 3 years, he left her with no money to feed herself and the children.she had no family to support her (her mother passed away and her father was drunk all day) so Ramus took her back to Pokhara, although he had also hard time with money... she barely had money for food,she picked what she could from Nature, tried to pick warm clothes from whoever she could,and collected all the money she succeeded to pay for Soruj school..
after 3 years of struggle to survive Her husband came back, when he is married with a nepali girl he met in Malesia (Its allowed by law for man to marry more then 1 woman in Nepal) and wanted Gita back. ofcourse she didnt want any relation to him so they came back to his family house where Sopol, thei're little sun live and Gita stayed in Pokhara.
When I met Gita she rent and ran a little guesthouse where I stayed "Dreamcather guest house". next to her,Ramus -her brother- was also running even bigger guesthouse. after the earthquake both of the buildings broke and they didn't have money for fixing and continue to pay rent and food.. so both of them moved to a homestay where they live now.
Gita has sharp mind and life wisdom, she's thinking widely and have good sense for people. she easily makes people speak what they have in their heart and have good practical ideas how to make things better. until now David helped her with what he could, so many "close projects" (food, money, wifi, computer, kitchen tools, computer work for Soruj) , i helped with what i could and so as other travellers who felt connected to this woman. And so as Gita, helped me, David, and so many other travellers and nepali women she meets in the street just because she brave enough to speak, ask and offer her help. she has a big heart and knowledge how to get along and she knows how is it to be in a stuck situation in life and how to survive anyway..
so Gita, as her job is running this foundation in Nepal. each woman that we help enters the Dreamcatcher family, and we keep to take care that she's doing well and take smart decisions consider her business and her expanses. as part of Gita's job is to visit those girls, give them advises and update us.