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Touching Lives consultancy, Lagos (2026)

12/06/2020

We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them. Problems are not stop signs. They are guidelines.

07/04/2020

THE POWER OF YOUR THOUGHTS

Mind power is one of the strongest and most useful powers you can posses. This power that consist of your thoughts, passes through your mind and is responsible for everything that happens in life.

The predominant thoughts influences your behavior and attitude, controls your actions and reaction.

Thoughts are mostly imaginations from mental pictures of the mind with constructive, destructive and other capabilities beyond our control.

The construction and imagination of our mind has the power to keep you in bo***ge or liberate you from the things that can detare you from being your best. until the person changes his or her way of thinking, life and its circumstances will not change his existence.

Your thoughts produces pathway that always ends up forming your ideas, expectations, reality and models that shapens your visions of what you perceive to be a reality.

Surrounding yourself with successful and positive people helps to direct your thoughts and creates a mantra for affirmation.

A postive mindset tend to grow and eliminate negative thoughts, it sets you to achieve positive and meaningful goals with the right intentions and mindset.

Hence, try redirecting and reshaping yourself by recreating your feelings, decisions and behavior that lead to changing your destiny.

01/04/2020

HELLO APRIL! May this month be one of your blessed and fulfilled month. Happy New month 💖💖💖💖

23/03/2020

Feeling lonely, frasturated or disappointed. Need someone to talk to. Guess what? You are not alone. Visit us on a website and we will be right there.

21/03/2020

Corona virus is real

08/03/2019

HIGHLIGHT FOR A LONG LASTING RELATIONSHIP.

Great relationships are as a result of quiet and intentional habits. A couple that is not deliberate about their relationship success will see it disintegrate.

Every relationship can experience a turn around if the partners are willing to make adjustments.

However, I will be highlighting the pressure points in a relationship;

1. COMMUNICATION DIFFERENCES
You should understand that both of you are different individual trying to become one, hence, you should be able to understand each other's communication skills. There are some key points a lady should know about her partner as well as the man.

MEETING NEEDS
You shouldn't be driven to love someone based on his or her financial buoyancy, popularity, status or culture. Although those things are important but it shouldn't be made a priority. Hence, a partner is meant to be a help mate and not a problem solver.

BEING POSITIVE
Relationships comes with ups and downs. Don't expect to be happy all the time.
Be open to disappointments, and use them as strategies to know your partner better.

GRATITUDE
Research shows that gratitude helps to reduce pain and hate as you tend to focus only on the positive aspects of your Partner. Always be grateful and appreciative about the qualities of your partner.

FIXED MINDSET
In every true and non-intrusive relationship, you should have it mind that you have just one goal which is marriage. Hence, your plans should be related to that.

GROWTH MINDSET
Accept that arguments will happen and treat it with maturity and Try to resolve with respect. Note that the strongest predictor of argument is contempt. Hence, you should try and treat every issue in the most applicable manner and not to prolong arguments.

BE FLEXIBLE
Let your relationship grow and adapt as you both change.

In summary, be aware of what is happening in your relationship, stay curious but respectful be updated about your partner and be a good listener.

08/03/2019

HIGHLIGHT FOR A LONG LASTING RELATIONSHIP.

Great relationships are as a result of quiet and intentional habits. A couple that is not deliberate about their relationship success will see it disintegrate.

Every relationship can experience a turn around if the partners are willing to make adjustments.

However, I will be highlighting the pressure points in a relationship;

COMMUNICATION DIFFERENCES
You should understand that both of you are different individual trying to become one, hence, you should be able to understand each other's communication skills. There are some key points a lady should know about her partner as well as the man.

MEETING NEEDS
You shouldn't be driven to love someone based on his or her financial buoyancy, popularity, status or culture. Although those things are important but it shouldn't be made a priority. Hence, a partner is meant to be a help mate and not a problem solver.

BEING POSITIVE
Relationships comes with ups and downs. Don't expect to be happy all the time.
Be open to disappointments, and use them as strategies to know your partner better.

GRATITUDE
Research shows that gratitude helps to reduce pain and hate as you tend to focus only on the positive aspects of your Partner. Always be grateful and appreciative about the qualities of your partner.

FIXED MINDSET
In every true and non-intrusive relationship, you should have it mind that you have just one goal which is marriage. Hence, your plans should be related to that.

GROWTH MINDSET
Accept that arguments will happen and treat it with maturity and Try to resolve with respect. Note that the strongest predictor of argument is contempt. Hence, you should try and treat every issue in the most applicable manner and not to prolong arguments.

BE FLEXIBLE
Let your relationship grow and adapt as you both change.

In summary, be aware of what is happening in your relationship, stay curious but respectful be updated about your partner and be a good listener.

01/03/2019

TRUE HAPPINESS IDENTITY

You can have flaws, be anxious, and even be angry, but do not forget that your life is the greatest enterprise in the world and Only you can stop it from going bust.

Many appreciate you, admire you and love you. Remember that to be happy is not to have a sky without a storm, a road without accidents, work without fatigue, relationships without disappointments.

… To be happy is to find strength in forgiveness, hope in battles, security in the stage of fear, love in discord. It is not only to enjoy the smile, but also to reflect on the sadness.
… It is not only to celebrate the successes, but to learn lessons from the failures.
…… It is not only to feel happy with the applause, but to be happy in anonymity. .… Being happy is not a fatality of destiny, but an achievement for those who can travel within themselves. To be happy is to stop feeling like a victim and become your destiny's author. .. It is to cross deserts, yet to be able to find an oasis in the depths of our soul.
…… It is to thank God for every morning, for the miracle of life.
Being happy is not being afraid of your own feelings. It's to be able to talk about you. … It is having the courage to hear a "no". It is confidence in the face of criticism, even when unjustified.
… It is to kiss your children, pamper your parents, to live poetic moments with friends, even when they hurt us.
…..To be happy is to let live the creature that lives in each of us, free, joyful and simple. It is to have maturity to be able to say: "I made mistakes". It is to have the courage to say "I am sorry". ... It is to have the sensitivity to say, "I need you". It is to have the ability to say "I love you".

And when you make a mistake, start all over again. For only then will you be in love with life. You will find that to be happy is not to have a perfect life

But use the tears to irrigate tolerance, Use your losses to train patience, use your mistakes to sculptor serenity, use your pain to plaster pleasure, use obstacles to open windows of intelligence. Never give up .... Never give up on people who love you. Never give up on happiness,
For LIFE is an incredible show

15/02/2019

BEING ENABLED
(...your vital boost for a successful life..*

✍🏼Life is a race arena as well a battlefield...Everyone is running for its success knowing it has failing points(its loop holes).

Many actually did prepared so well before racing but on the process were distracted and were captured by life loop holes... Many run the race without taking words from the master of race and are left with disappointment. Many are anxiously reliant on their ability, leaving out the necessities of a successful life race.

Many who were enabled but failed caution and were disabled by life forces, and could not continue in the race.

But the few who took caution; *connecting their humanity to divinity* were divinely enabled for a successful life race.

all what is being preached here is *ENABLEMENT!!!* It is something so needed if you must run a better and a successful race.

A person who is *enabled* can *go far in doing exploits for God* just as the Apostles were and did.

A person who is *enabled* will *have a working relationship and a blissful marriage.*

A person who is divinely *enabled* will *break protocols and barriers.*

A person who is *enabled* will *command fire* like the Prophet Elijah of those days.

A person who is *enabled* will *revive dry bones* like Prophet Ezekiel of those days.

A person who is *enabled* will *heal a lame beggar* just as Peter did in 📖Acts 3.

A person who is *enable* will *turn water to wine, heal the sick raise the dead and do all sort of thrilling miracles* just as our Lord JESUS did!

Jesus said; “greater things shall ye do than I did” *but not until you are enabled.*

Paul said “I can do all things through christ that strengthens(enables) me”. 📖Phil 4:13.

It is stated that financial prosperity shall be ours... *but not until we are enabled;* for it is God who gives power(enablement) to make wealth.

the difference between a man who succeeded and a man who failed is in their *ENABLEMENT.

When you are enabled; you are empowered, when you are enabled; you are enlightened, when you are enabled; you are equipped, when you are enabled; you are encapacitated, when you are enabled; you are recharged..
*ENABLEMENT is what makes the difference!!!*

There is absolutely nothing you can do outside your enablement.....
Your *ENABLEMENT* is your *CAPACITY.*
Your *CAPACITY* is your *SUCCESS ESTATE.*

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14/12/2018

WORKING TO EARN A GIVING

In both giving and working, we feel that most people consider two few options: to do too little reflection and place too little weight on helping others. They give to the charities that they happen to come in contact with and feel satisfied with their achievements.

When we speak of an effective giving movement, we picture people not asking "how can I feel good?" or "how can I do good?" but "how can I do as much good as possible?"-not out of obligation or guilt but out of genuine excitement and the thought of making a positive difference and the hunger to make the difference big as they can.

We wouldn't be happy to see more people basing their life's career decision solely on things like lifetime earning, but we would be happy to see more people with their jobs as well as their giving-being proactive rather than reactive

I agree that earning should be a factor although not the only one, but also think people should consider the good they will accomplish through the work itself

Success is neither about the money nor how popular you are in the society. Rather, it's the ability to put that which the lord had given you to work so that others may benefit through you .

Apart from money, you can give your time, your knowledge, your smile as the case may seem. there is nothing you have that you were not given anyway.

With that said, I believe that the "working to earn a giving" idea has something very valuable about it because it represents a broadening of set of options one considers as possibilities for doing good.

07/12/2018

CHANGE YOUR TACTICS!
(...leaving the path of failure into success...)

✍I will like to share this with us:

In the game of football, success is not determined by strength or muscle(by how build you are)...but a determinant of the tactics you play.

Even if all your players are muscularly build...you may end up loosing to the opponents.... You will discover that the wise managers do have a formation change when it's not heading well on the field of play...JOSE MOURINHO, PEP GUARDIOLA, ANTONIO CONTE, ARSENE WENGER, JORGEN KLOPP, MAURICHIO POCHETTINO, ZINEDINE ZIDANE, DIEGO SIMEON, ROBERTO MARTINEZ and others wouldn't joke but take victories through change in tactics.

The many challenges we are faced with today are a result of insensitivity to look into our pattern of life and see if there are faults and to make ammends where necessary. Many of us have limited ourselves to a particular formation that is not working for us...

See! What doesn't work for you is either not your best or you lack the right tactics to make it work....Life is tactical in its affairs, only the persons who plays the right tactics come out victorious.

*You cannot be doing things the same way and expect a different result*...you've gotta change that formation.

You wanna challenge the devil to defeat and you are yet sleeping for 12hrs or more... I fear that the devil will use drumming sticks on your head one day. You'd better wake up to that tactics that works.

You wanna have a working relationship and a blissful marriage ahead...yet you are not skilled @ anything whatsoever; your cooking ability is zero, home management skill is zero point one, financial pocket is empty, tolerance is zero, endurance is F9, charity is F9, attention mode is not functional, love and trust are lacking and the heart is in a bad condition, prayer cell is empty and word life is dry but laziness to work and other things is 100%. Hmmm....are you sure really desire a working relationship & a blissful marriage or you're just imagining it. Better tune to the tactics that works!

Your tactics is your Life; Your Life is your tactics!!!

I wish I could continue....but I'm gonna rest my hand here.

I pray for myself and somebody here, may the Lord empower us and give us insights on the right tactics to use to acquire success all round IN JESUS NAME!

Tadese A Kolawole cares

30/11/2018

DEALING WITH YOUR EXCESSES

There is a saying that "we all have issues that we need to deal with". No matter how much of a well- rounded person you think you are, you should admit to the fact that nobody is perfect and there is a particular part of your personality who probably looks weird or is annoying to others.

However, these little annoying habits that you cannot seem to get rid of is what makes your EXCESSES Which we also tame as flaws.

The first thing we should do when dealing with your flaws is to accept it as part of who you are. To have a deeper understanding of what flaws are all about, here is a brief look into its two main types;

First, there Is minor flaws which includes a little quirk like habitual lateness, easily irritable, boiling temper, etc.

Second, there are major flaws like addition, gambling, alcoholism, prostitution, etc.

STEPS ON HOW TO DEAL WITH YOUR EXCESSES

* LOVE IT BEFORE YOU IMPROVE IT: Accept the state that you are in before you try making radical changes. Hence, having a comprehensive image will help you take more balanced view of yourself.

* REFRAME YOUR THOUGHTS: Get ideas from family and friends about your character. sometimes, others see the good sides of it in us that we dont see. Although positive reframing will not change these qualities, but it can give you a healthy change in a perspective that will help you accept yourself.

* LIST OUT YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENT: List out the good things in you as well as the things about yourself that you wish to change. If possible, Try to be specific. Look at yourself if any of the strengths listed are connected to the qualities You view as flaws. More over, some characteristics are sometimes a good thing, but sometimes a bad thing that is not a flaw. It is just something that you have to work on to know when to use it, and when you have to approach things a different ways.

* THINK ABOUT PAST EXPERIENCES: Ask yourself how you got your flaws, are they familial? biological? when do they happen? if you say things you later regret?. ask yourself if it's an act you learned from your family or if it's just your reactions to awkward situations. The more you can understand these past behaviors the more you reduce your excesses on them.

* AVIOD CRITICISM: Avoid criticizing your self over your flaws, instead work on your forgiveness. As much as we might like to, we cannot change the past. Ruminating on past mistakes, whether they are as a result of a decision you made or because you behaved a certain way. All you do is, acknowledge the mistake and try to learn, and grow from it.

* LEARN TO ASK FOR HELP: if it is above your handling capacity, It is better you learn how to talk about your feelings concerning your flaws to people who you feel can help.

All In all, you can consciously take necessary steps to change or accept it as part of who you are. No matter which of these two options you choose, the important thing is for you to learn how to deal with your excesses as part of who you are as a person.

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