Bright shame

28/08/2024

My friend, do not sacrifice your happiness to please someone who does not value you.
Because you don't want to lose someone, you lost yourself in the process. Sometimes, we sacrifice everything, including our value,happiness, and most importantly, our peace, just to hold on to someone who may not even want to be with you. It is important to prioritize our own happiness and well-being above, trying to please someone who does not truly value us.
The fear of losing someone we care about can be overwhelming. It can lead us to make choices that are not aligned with our true selves. We compromise our value to please people, and in the end, we may still find ourselves alone ,but here is the crucial part, sometimes, letting go is the most powerful act of self-love.
Your happiness and inner peace should never be negotiable. It is not selfish to prioritize your well-being. So don't lose yourself to please someone who does not value you just because you don't want to lose them. Sacrificing your own happiness in order to make someone else happy will only lead to feelings of resentment and dissatisfaction and disappointments 😞.
Remember,you should know your place in people's lives so you don't have to overplay your part and save yourself from heartache and disappointments 😁. When we invest ourselves, we often set high expectations for how others should treat us, and when those expectations are not met, it can lead to a lot of pain and frustration 💔.
So, it's important to understand your role in people's lives. That can help you establish boundaries and set expectations, and understanding the dynamics of your relationship can help you manage your expectations better. It allows you to invest your time and energy more wisely, focusing on those who appreciate and reciprocate your effort 👌.
Lastly, your happiness and well-being should not depend on someone else's validation or attention. Don't be afraid to let go of connections that constantly leave you feeling unfulfilled. Ultimately, understanding your place in people's lives can help you navigate relationships maturely

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"People say that ‘many are called but few are chosen.’ See it another way; each receives a calling yet most choose not to hear. The usual problem in life is not the lack of a calling; the problem is usually a refusal to answer the call. The true problem is not the lack of a career, but the absence of a genuine vocation capable of provoking one’s genius and inspiring one’s heart. Out of fear of failing or being seen as foolish, most refuse to listen to what calls to them. Many go to the grave complaining of a bad fate, unjust treatment and great disappointments. The real appointment involves encounters with one’s own destiny and each true destination involves something divine.

The lack of a genuine calling is the cause of great anguish and deep disorientation. Life can seem pointless and meaningless unless a divine connection and true vocation can be found. Of course, the second great problem involves hearing the call and answering it. Those who are called often look more lost than those who remain deaf to the whisperings of the soul and the voices of dreams. Answering such a call requires that we become both less and more than we appear to be.

In answering the call we learn how we are threaded and where we are aimed. Not responding to the call that comes to us leaves the soul aching and makes the mind anxious. Failing to heed the call can cause a depression of the spirit; for both spirit and soul are poised to respond and both are expecting the call.

The problem in most situations is not a lack of calling; but a fear of responding to the call. Besides the issue of leaving everything behind there is also the fear of being inadequate and the terror of being overwhelmed. Under the banner of practicality, most of life becomes arranged to obscure and distract us from what called us to come to life in the first place. Most people remain unwilling to be extravagant enough to wander where their soul would lead them, adapting instead to an endless series of short-term goals. People easily misplace their deepest longings and tune themselves to someone else’s idea of life."

- Michael Meade, "Fate and Destiny"

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