07/02/2022
Repost from Luckily this article was able to already bring some impact and raise awareness🙌🏻
I want to touch somewhat an uncomfortable topic and it might not be a suitable read for sensitive people or people living in a totally happy world with rainbows and unicorns. Nor It's a professional text or advice, mainly it's how I feel from my experience.
I'd like to talk about female financial independence.
We still live in a mostly traditional society where we are naturally tending to form partnerships, marriages and families where men are main providers and breadwinners.
The main idea here is that a woman must always have something for yourself. If you're fully engaged in your career — contribute to the family budget, invest under your own account, get a savings plan that is protected from third parties.
If you're a housewife, still pursue your education and strive for self-development to get yourself a small side business or freelance work to save YOUR OWN money and invest under your own account and get third party protected savings on your name.
If you're that girl that is fully provided by a man, living luxury life and thinking that women who need to work are losers - well, ask him to give you money to invest and look out for third party protected savings.
Why doing so and having your own safety pillows? Why I keep mentioning third party protected savings?
Real life happens - men are not staying with us forever and it's just a matter of time. In case of the divorce and suing for splitting mutual assets, your investment and bank accounts are still under risk — hence third party protection is needed. Well, some financial planning is needed at first. I've met quite a lot of women who are "happily married" yet living miserable life: they don't have any work, experience, income and savings. Being completely dependent on their partners, they tolerate cheating and abuse, because they are so afraid to be left alone with nothing. It may sound cynical, but men can pass away under any circumstances (there's also a topic of having adequate life insurance), and you'll have to face the risk of starting from zero for yourself and your family.
Girls,